what is a hood hijabi
honestly I am not quite sure. It’s actually just a name I refer to myself as. So maybe a hood hijabi is not a thing, but I feel it adequately …
Recognizing Emotional Abuse
Just because a man is incarcerated does not mean he cannot be abusive, you must still be aware of the signs of abuse, in this case it is emotional. It …
Intimacy in a Prison Marriage
Being distant from your incarcerated loved one can be hard. A marriage under the best of circumstances requires work. It is doubly so when distance plus incarceration plays a role. If …
Help!! He Was Sentenced To Life!
The moment in court you hear your man will have to serve a life sentence. It cannot be put the feeling into words, it is like whoosh as all the …
My Basic Morning Routine
The key to a successful morning routine is partially based on a good nighttime routine. I believe this to be correct, but even without an evening routine your mornings can …
Keeping the Pantry Full
I keep certain food on hand to make a rotation of meals. I budget 600 dollars a month for food, personal care products and household essential I do one grocery …
Mama Said There Will Be Times Like This
At times life appears unbearably. Lots of people do not dare admit it is true. It is life and at times it sucks. I am still processing and dealing with …
Dealing With The Double D’s (Depression and Despair)
Depression A mood disorder characterized by persistent sadness or inability to experience pleasure combined with other symptoms, including poor concentration, indecisiveness, sleep problems, changes in appetite, and feelings of guilt, …
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The Revolving Door
You ever find your self asking what is wrong with him? Why is he always in trouble? Does he like living this way? Why wouldn’t he want to be home …
10 Ways to Survive Your Man Being on Lockdown
Lock down for convicts sucks, but can be a secret blessing for their wives. I use to mope around feeling sorry for myself. Well I finally grew tired of throwing …